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Wednesday, March 7, 2012
While the gender of the person asking the second question is not clear, I'm going to answer these as if they are both about female-bodied people, since this type of concern is most often about pain during vaginal penetration...
Thursday, March 1, 2012
Recently, I was intimate and condomless with a new partner. It was a heat-of-the-moment thing and sort of intense. Two days later, he said he was sore from the intensity and admitted to being a bit rough with himself the day after we were together...
Thursday, Feb. 23, 2012
My wife and I have been together for over ten years. Sex was fine before her hysterectomy five years ago. Now, we hardly ever have sex. She says it hurts, and she just doesn't have the desire anymore. I have asked her to see her doctor, because it could be...
Thursday, Dec. 29, 2011
If you think back to the beginning of your relationship, it's likely that sex was more of a priority than it is now. This is common in many relationships. All that new-relationship energy means that you behave somewhat like a giddy teen...
Friday, Dec. 16, 2011
I've been in a same-sex relationship for four years now. We have anal sex. Our problem is that my boyfriend always bleeds every time we do it. He has been diagnosed before with hemorrhoids. What is the best way that we can continue...
Thursday, Nov. 17, 2011
How do lesbians determine when they've had "sex" or not? This is not an uncommon question, and the basis for it lies in the fact that, in U.S. culture, we tend to define “sex” as penile-vaginal penetration...
Thursday, Nov. 10, 2011
Almost every year, I take part in a Q&A session at a national conference for college students during which students can anonymously ask any questions they want about sex—kind of like a live version of this column. So last weekend...
Thursday, Aug. 18, 2011
As a woman, how do you balance self-respect with being sexy? I received the question above during a workshop for college students earlier this year. It seemed especially relevant to me this past weekend; while SlutWalk Milwaukee...

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