Are you considered a virgin if you already had sex and kids but can't feel pleasure while having sex, meaning not having an orgasm? I wrote a column recently in response to another reader question about the cultural construct of virginity...

Like most people of legal drinking age (or, for that matter, without cable), I didn't watch the MTV Video Music Awards last night. I have, however, been captivated by the post-morts on the show. By most accounts there were few showstopping moments, and little-known host Russell Brand has so far received mostly awful reviews, with most of the coverage focusing on his back and forth with Jordin Spar...