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Wednesday, Oct. 30, 2013

The Hot Mess Created by Lying and Stereotypes

 My girl and I have been together for almost seven years now. Last year, I had a same-sex encounter and got caught. I’ve been with men in the past and always enjoyed the feeling it brought during sex. She has always known about my past
Thursday, Aug. 29, 2013
 My husband and I are thinking about exploring anal sex. We both want to get the experience of penetration. I would need a strap-on, and I want him to wear one too. Is this a crazy idea? Can you recommend a his-and-hers strap-on set? Also, are there any books on this subject? This is not a crazy idea at all! Both men and women (and anyone of any gender, really) can wear harnesses and use dildos to penetrate their partners. In fact, if a couple is interested in exploring anal play, it’s a great idea for each of them to experience being both the top and the bottom—the person doing the penetration and the person being penetrated
Friday, Nov. 16, 2012
Last week, I led a lunchtime discussion at UW-Milwaukee for students who are interested in becoming sexuality educators. I get questions about this whenever I do a workshop on a college campus—people wonder how
Thursday, July 19, 2012
This is a question on how to spice up our repertoire of positions. What are some good positions for a well-endowed guy? My girlfriend and I usually go from missionary to cowgirl to a position called "the slide," and repeat...
Friday, April 24, 2009

Online Edition

Earlier this month, my column featured one of the most frequently asked-about sex topics: anal pleasure. If you were intrigued by that column and want to learn more, I invite you to come to the Tool Shed on April 25 at 2 pm for a workshop with Tristan Taormino, a woman whose name is practically synonymous with "butt play" in certain circles. Tristan is the author of "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women" as well as the forthcoming "Anal Sex Position Guide," which will be published in May. She directs a series of...